Never prove yourself in a dump; make sure to take care of yourself as best as you can, becoming excellent, confident, bold, and powerful. Only then can you reject those who are not good enough from your social circle. When you are strong enough, with a stable core and mental support, you won't be anxious about someone's sudden departure, nor will you expect anyone to stay out of obligation. Live as your strong self, unafraid of any comments or opinions. The ultimate goal of hard work is not to stand out among the crowd, but to leave the crowd.

All the difficulties you encounter can be solved in one sentence: this is my life. I came to this world, and I only live once, so no matter what we do, we might as well be bold, because no one can leave this world alive. What do I need those internal struggles for? I just want to be happy. I only live once, you just have to think about the question of life and death, and everything else is just a bruise. So, the meaning of life is actually the experiences you have over these several decades of living; don't let unhappy things block your short life. Please cherish every day, every minute, and every second that you are alive.